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Writer's pictureTasha Milican-Lee

You can't do everything!

Do you ever find yourself feeling exhausted or overwhelmed? Many of us juggle family, work, hobbies, and community responsibilities, often leading to disorganized priorities and a sense of stress and fatigue.

When life feels unbalanced, it might seem like you've neglected your needs and values. While it’s easy to feel regretful and burned out, you can still work toward achieving a sense of equilibrium. Here are some practices to help bring balance back into your life:

  1. Be Reasonable: Understand that your resources—time, money, and energy—are limited. While it's natural to want to accomplish many things, it's important to acknowledge the constraints of a day. Let go of the notion of perfection and solving every problem; it's okay not to get everything done. Remember, you’re doing your best.

  2. Find a Support System: Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you, adding value to your life and inspiring you to be your best self. Try to minimize interactions with those who create stress. Stress can have physical repercussions, so consider gradually distancing yourself from those who contribute to your imbalance.

  3. Take Control and Say No: Often, we say yes to avoid disappointing others, leading to unreasonable pressures. Consider your current responsibilities and think about what you can realistically handle. Learn to say no to avoid additional stress.

  4. Schedule Rest: Rest isn’t just about sleep. It can involve reading, listening to music or podcasts, or engaging in creative activities. Choose activities that bring you comfort and peace.

  5. Focus on Today: There will always be tasks and goals on the horizon. Instead of obsessing about the future, concentrate on the present. Creating a balanced life requires you to be present in your interactions with family, friends, hobbies, and work.

Remember, life is more than daily stressors that cause imbalance and unhappiness. Start taking steps towards a balanced life by learning to take control, set boundaries, and focus on today.



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